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Baaaaaaaaa.... 03/11/2010
 
There comes a point in life where we have to decide where we stand on issues we believe in and the world’s perception of us based on those issues.  

When I retired, I was acting based on a desire to “leave this profession to the new wave of women” who saw domination as something completely different than I. Let me reiterate again, that even in my departure letter, I tried to make it clear that one is not better than the other; just different. Much like some people’s preference for New England clam chowder, while others prefer the Manhattan version.

I adore sex, porn, escorts, porn stars, and Dominants of all forms. I believe that all sex workers are in this fight together for fair treatment and freedom to express ourselves in whatever way we see fit. We are one BIG family and in that family we have different roles. Often times over the years roles and identities evolve and mine may, but my Professional role currently is that of a “pure play” Dominant. I embrace that role whole-heartedly, it is whom I identify with and after a great deal of soul searching I do not see a conflict between myself as a Lifestyle player and myself as a Professional Dominant.

My main goal always has been and always will be to further BDSM education, community resources, and cross-community bonding and I apologize if my retirement letter created a fissure amongst anyone, that was not it’s intent.

Whether sex worker, Lifestyle player, perv, kinkster, fetishist, pornographer, or any assortment of other identities under this fantastic kink umbrella, we’re all still black sheep scattered throughout the societal standard herd. However, there are enough of us that if we stick together, we can make up a damn sexy flock of our own.

My black wooly self will be over here if anyone wishes join me…. Just saying.


Mistress Shae Flanigan

 


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