The Academy

To make it an exact quote:

“There is a huge amount of drama over Mistresses who “do” and Mistresses who “don’t”.”

The above was part of a speech I heard given by one of our speakers at the recent Woodhull Freedom Foundation fundraiser I hosted at my studio earlier this month. By “do” or “don’t” the speaker was referring to ladies who do or don’t offer sex as part of their “domination experience”.

The speaker was right. For years there’s been a huge amount of drama going back and forth between the two sides of the professional world. On one side are the ladies who feel that they have every right to take pleasure from their clients however they see fit, while on the other side are the ladies who feel that having an intense D/s scene with someone and finishing it by having sex with the client or giving them head not only ruins the D/s dynamic but also does a significant amount to blur the line between escorts and Dominas.

There was a time, for many years in fact, where escorts-who-dominate and Domina’s co-existed without much crossover except when one world’s client called someone on the other side causing accidental offense to the lady or mis set expectations for the client. However now it seems that the worlds of escorting and Domination are converging much like they have in other have in other countries begging the question; does there really need to be a line at all?

Some of our forward-thinking women in the US have already been adjusting to the changing tide and to both groups of women I applaud you. I’m sure quite a few of us, (clients too) have seen this trend toward “Full-Service Dommes” growing bit by bit and why not? I have always been a huge proponent of sexual freedom and as long as a Dommes skills are up to par in all arenas, I say go for it!

Who knows, perhaps in the near future it might even be safe to say a Professional Domme is a Professional Domme without there being the back and forth debate over whether those who do or don’t are “better”…wouldn’t that be nice?

I will say however, that with this new convergence, (in some areas of the country more than others,) all ladies need to really know all their skills. Read, ask questions and take classes in everything you can. If someone gives you attitude ask someone else; just keep looking for the right answers. We all know our play is intense and loads of fun but it also puts people’s lives and safety on the line so it’s imperative that we all know what we’re doing whether sex is involved or not. If you play on the bottom side, make sure you know what “good play” feels like so you can identify when someone is doing something to you that’s unsafe.

Just like with any industry, skill set requirements change and if one cannot, or will not, diversify to fit market trends they become obsolete. I, for one, am a Mistress who is quite happy to allow herself to become obsolete in the world of Professional Domination. Those of you who know my play know that I am a pure energy player and wicked sadist. Not only am I completely fine with not having a sensual “trade-off” to my play, I also have absolutely no intention nor desire to change it. I adore being an intimidating and realistic “schoolmarm” and cherish my clear-cut style of D/s and playful sadism. Some of you understand completely and you I will happily continue to see privately, but as of October 1st, I will be closing The Academy’s doors permanently to pursue my passion of BDSM Education, Alternative Lifestyle Psychology, and becoming the new kink writer for The Blade Magazine.

My thanks to those of you who have contacted me already to offer your skills and services toward my new venture. I will have more information about specific tasks and skill sets needed within the next few weeks as exact plans are drawn up.




Take care and all my best wishes for safe play and kinky fun,

Mistress Shae Flanigan

All Academy workshops and play parties that are not part of RAWW are open to people of all genders and orientations.

After chatting with a few couples this week who were saddened to not be able to attend the Roughhousing workshop because they believed that it was a Women’s Only event, I realized that some clarification was in order.

So, if an event is “women’s only” it will be listed clearly in the event information... If an event is open to everyone, not only will it NOT say “women only” I will be certain that from this day forth those events are labeled “mixed-gender” as well.

Up next, The Academy will be hosting:

The Academy Players Party: Sept 4th
Bring your toy bags and come ready to play!
All are welcome, whether novice or veteran players. No muss, no fuss; just real players having real fun.

8:00pm - 2:00am
$15/pp or $20/couple
Food and non-alcoholic drinks provided.
Exact address information provided upon RSVP via phone 213.255.8544 or email to Mistress.Shae@gmail.com
-Open to All genders and orientations-

Suspension Workshop with Don Sir: Sept 19th
It’s time to take your rope work to the next level.

1:00 - 4:00 pm
$20/pp
Exact address information provided upon RSVP via phone 213.255.8544 or email to Mistress.Shae@gmail.com
-Open to All genders and orientations-


"Los Angeles Femme Fatale" - A Fetish Play Night at The Academy: Sept 19th
An evening for Femme Dommes and the people who love them!

8:00 - 2:00 am
$20 single $35 couple $5 discount for pre-booked tickets.
www.LosAngelesFemmeFatale.weebly.com
-Open to All genders and orientations-

Blood Play Workshop with Daddy Naria and SoCal Leather Woman 2006 Bakkja Amy
Come learn what all the excitement is really about...
1:00 – 3:00 pm
$15/pp
Exact address information provided upon RSVP via phone 213.255.8544 or email to Mistress.Shae@gmail.com
-Open to All genders and orientations- 


Until we speak next, 
Mistress Shae Flanigan

This last weekend was incredible and very, very much needed. The Woodhull Fundraiser was a smashing success and having the opportunity to bond with the incredibly sweet and talented Lamalani did wonders to renew my spirit.

While on the topic, those wishing to see a who smile on my face should volunteer themselves for body punching. The primal interaction taps into a wickedly impish part of my that I truly adore and I must say that this weekend’s "fist recipients" really send this weekend’s workshop through the roof.

While I’m on the topic of workshops, I suggest you take a moment to browse The Academy’s upcoming workshop schedule. All classes have been slotted through the end of the year and I’m quite certain there will be things to suit all levels of players.

Additionally, I’ve updated The Academy’s “Special” for August... You lucky devils and have brought my travel and event schedule up to date. One thing; if you haven’t marked your calendars yet, take note, I will be on vacation from September 5th – 17th and will not be checking email or voicemail during that time.

Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon.
Mistress Shae Flanigan

P.S. Take a peak at one of my hot new photo shoot images. Compliments of the wonderfully talented Blackula

First and foremost I would like to thank all of you who have called, or sent letter of condolences regarding Veronica’s death. She always will be an incredible woman and it is still difficult to process her no longer being part of our lives.

Thank you for understanding my being less than my chipper self as of late and to those of you who have come in to see me, thank you for giving me the opportunity to escape from my emotions into our fantasies for the short amounts of time we shared.

I still find my greatest solace in my work, which is my play... In an odd way, it is the only time I feel as though I am paying her memory the homage it deserves. Those who knew her understand this while those who didn’t missed knowing a phenomenal person.

Day by day it gets easier, though that in itself seems wrong; but time passes and it is not fair to try to hold on to the past forever... No matter how much we may want to.

RIP Beautiful... I will cherish your wonderfully wicked smile and kind heart always. 

M. Shae

Due to a death in the community. We appologize for the short notice and thank you for your understanding.

Take care,
Mistress Shae Flanigan