First on Friday night Mistress Marina St. Mark and I threw an AMAZING final evening at RUIN. The fetish room was packed and it will be a night to remember. As to why we decided to not continue our stay at RUIN, quite simply, we LOVE our space at The Academy and if we're going to through fantastic Fetish parties ANYWHERE, we'd much rather throw them in our own space! That brings us to the second part of our weekend, The Academy's Anniversary party! We heard rave reviews from you about the space, the play, our fantastic baked ziti (among other goodies) and coffee! In fact the reviews were so great that we have decided to go ahead with our plans to make it a MONTHLY EVENT! How will this work you ask? Well, to fulfill both world's desire for play, we're going to trade off every-other month with one Academy Party being "Lifestyle-only" play and people and the next being "Professional-only” play and people. How do you know which party is right for you? - Domina’s looking to “strut their stuff” or bring a client out for a “public” show = Pro Party - Ladies looking for a casual night with friends or to play with their sweetie among friends = Lifestyle Party - Gentlemen looking to meet their “Lady–Right” (who may also happen to be a Pro-Domme) = Pro Party If you have any questions please let us know and remember The Academy is also available on occasion for private party rentals. Coming next: May 9th, RAWW: Advanced Fire Play Workshop and play party! Take care, Mistress Shae PIC OF THE DAY:
Are you ready?
Friday night we are having the BIG quad birthday party of Mistress Marina St. Mark, Myself, James J, and Lady Laur all at RUIN! One night out on the town with the fantastic Dj Xian spinning your favorite music to keep you going all night.
Saturday morning refresh yourself at The Academy's Yoga for Bondage workshop hosted by the amazing Lady C.! Spots are filling up fast so if you want to sneak into this one, let me know soon!
Then Saturday night we're pulling out the BIG guns for The Academy's 1st Anniversary Play Party. It will be an incredible night you won't forget and will beg for us to repeat!
Remember all Saturday events are RSVP ONLY so submit your information and get your name on the invite list or be left out in the cold DREAMING you were there!
You'll not want to miss the surprises I have up my sleeve! ;)
Mistress Shae
PIC OF THE DAY:
It's a busy day in LA!
While some of you are out there sweating away in the heat, I'm sitting at my desk quite comfortably fresh out of session in fully regalia without the faintest hint of flush to my cheeks.
It seems some of my faithful students remembered this as a sanctuary from the outside heat and have all decided to come spilling in at once! I must say, seeing so many of you first thing on a Monday is a wonderful way to start my week!
Now for my newest string of updates, first, my May “Feminization” workshop has been pushed back a week on account of Memorial Day weekend.
Second, I want to get your feedback regarding workshops and play parties in the evenings mid-week. Comment back here and let me know your thoughts… would these mid-week gathering work better for you or would they be harder to attend?
Third, The Academy’s First Anniversary Play Party is THIS SATURDAY. If you have not RSVP’d yet please do so now as I won’t be accepting requests to attend much longer. For those of you coming, I look forward to seeing you there!
Take care, have a fantastic week and I look forward to seeing you soon!
Mistress Shae
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Good afternoon everyone,
It's another sunny day in LA and I for one am thrilled that summer is just around the corner. I am looking forward to the heat and the myriad of adventures that summer always brings.
In my world of updates this week I had a great time at The Blasphemy Ball last Sunday and our "auction" to see which lucky bottom would be taking Dj Xian's birthday spankings from me raised $208 to be divided between Children's Hospital and RAWW both non-profits very worthy of support.
Our lucky bottom was a very sweet young lady who had never been to one of our club nights before and I’m a quite certain that when her friends invited her out for the evening she never envisioned her evening would be quite so eventful! (I am told that pictures will indeed be coming soon)
If you missed our birthday fun for Dj Xian on Sunday you can still come wish Me a happy THIS Friday night at Club RUIN. No Auction required, all bottoms feeling adventurous enough to take my birthday spankings are more than welcome!
Lastly, don't forget, The Academy's 1 yr Anniversary Party is coming up in two weeks! If you haven't gotten your RSVP's in do so now as it is a closed guest list. Anyone who is not on that list will not be making it in the door!
Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon!
Mistress Shae
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Why the new blog?
Well first and foremost, now all my lovely readers can leave comments sharing their thoughts and insights about things I'm saying and places I'm going.
I enjoy interacting with people in my world and this is just another great way to do that.
As you probably noticed, if you scrolled down at all, all of my posts from my previous blog have been lumped into one BIG post here so if you are looking from anything previous to today that is where you're going to find it.
One exception of course is all the images that I had posted along with my entries. Don't worry though, this new blog most certainly allows images; it just wasn't overly thrilled with my doing a bulk copy & paste from one page to another and decided to spit out all the images being taken along for the ride.
As a way to recover those I plan to start a “pic of the day” project to upload a new image from my old blog into this blog each day until all of my old images are back because I know that many of you enjoyed seeing my event flyers and pictures.
Speaking of pictures, my sister website www.MistressShae.com is BACK! I know many of you have been very patiently waiting its return with all its fantastic new images! I will caution you however that www.MistressShae.com is completely dedicated to modeling. So those of you who are hoping for a Domina angle to the pictures you see of me, you are already in the right place. If, instead you are looking to understand the woman who is your Domina more thoroughly as a whole and appreciate her many different sides, I invite you to enjoy.
On a completely different note, our RAWW workshop and party was FANTASTIC! Amazing women with adventuresome minds and spirits. Truly, I would not have hoped for a better day. As always, take care and I look forward to seeing you soon. Mistress Shae
PIC OF THE DAY: Playing at RUIN
The Sweetest Sadist You'll Ever Meet... 04/07/09 Back from Seattle; back from San Francisco; back from Denver! Whoo! Three trips in four weeks... Wow. I had an absolutely amazing time, had a beyond-outstanding travel companion, but my goodness, this little Domina is ready to be home for a bit. Stepping out of that airport into a beautiful 84-degree day and feeling the arid lightness in the air was an incredible homecoming. Oh yes, Los Angeles, I AM HOME! :D
So, now what? First, off, wish me a happy birthday. That's right. I managed to get home from all my travels JUST in time to celebrate my birthday here in the city. How am I going to spend my birthday? Who knows! The day has yet to unfold... What I want to know is how many of you will be coming over my lap before the week is out to take my birthday spankings.
In other big news, our first RAWW workshop and play party is THIS Saturday! This is a female-identified event ONLY so women, if you are interested in attending and need any information, please contact me directly.
Additionally, The Academy's First Anniversary mix-gender play party is Saturday, the 25th of April! It's looking to be a big one so please make sure to RSVP as this will be an invite list ONLY event. AKA if your name is not on my list you will not make it through the door.
Oh! One more bit of big news! This weekend you get a special double-dose of the Ladies of The Academy! Not only will Ms. Marina be running RUIN this Friday night, but then on Sunday night, Mistress Shae will be out at The Monte Cristo's Blasphemy Ball to celebrate The Academy taking over sponsorship of RUIN's Fetish Room from Broken Door! This will be a night you won't want to miss!
On that note, have a lovely day, and I look forward to seeing you soon! Mistress Shae
03/24/09
Whoo! BIG changes to The Academy website!
First and foremost the Workshop Schedule for April through June is NOW posted along with the Visiting Instructor Bios! In case that wasn't enough, I've also kept my fingers busy creating a new "Head Mistress Contact" page and a "Tokens of Gratitude ~Thank You's~" page.
Many of you are familiar with my constant quest for perfection so if any links appear to be broken or if anything seems amiss, do let me let me know so that it can be corrected.
In other news, while I was at IMsL I came across a vendor who I have now become quite simply addicted to. For any of you who know me, the root of the addiction will not be surprising. I highly recommend taking a look at their site: http://invertedeye.com/
Take care, Mistress Shae
03/23/09
I was recently asked by a person entering into the scene what advice I could offer them to aid in this newest journey in their life. The below is the response I provided. I hope that perhaps it may resonate truth for some of you or perhaps offer a shred of insight to help you on your own path... Take care, M. Shae
"1. Everyone has their own kinks and fetishes. No matter how different they may be from yours, don't judge; we're all equal here.
2. Don't mistake bravado for wisdom. While we all have different roles we play and protocols we follow, every one of us had to take that first step that you're taking now.
3. Seek knowledge and skills constantly. Whether as a Top or a bottom, always try to learn as much as you can. A great Top should always try to broaden their skill sets while a bottom should research proper techniques to keep themselves safe. Other great skills for bottoms to have are massage, service-skills, butler training, cooking, pedicure, etc. Find ways in which to show your Top how much you appreciate the time and energy they have given you.
4. Lastly, no matter how good, how bad or how average an experience is (whether in play or vanilla life) strive to always find a kernel of wisdom to walk away with. No event in your life will ever be for nothing if you learn something from it. Journal your learnings at the end of each day. You'll be amazed by what you've learned.
Take care, Mistress Shae"
03/23/09
Happy Monday everyone!
I have arrived safely home from San Francisco after a delightful weekend at the International Ms Leather Contest and must say having so many smokingly-hot, leather-clad kinky women in one place was truly a treat!
On that note, join me in welcoming my friend and current-Seattle-ite, Lamalani as International Ms Leather 2009!
At The Academy, classes are back in session and I will be in town until April 1st when I leave for my trip to Seattle. On that note, April - June's workshops will be posted by EOD Wednesday so check back to see what delights await you. NClass sizes will be limited so get your registrations in.
Take care, Mistress Shae
03/17/09
Greetings everyone! Happy Irish Celebration Day!
I am home from Denver and had a lovely time meeting a wide array of lovely people on my visit. Today I will not be taking appointments as I will be celebrating my heritage and putting together the calendar of workshops for 2009 for your viewing pleasure.
We will have a wide range of workshops for your enjoyment including Yoga for Bondage, DIY Fetish, Bondage, Pervertibles, Fireplay and many many more....
In other news, my newest interview with Fixe Magazine has just been posted up! It's available for your online enjoyment at: http://www.fixemagazine.com/mistressshae.html
Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon, Mistress Shae
03/10/09
Greetings everyone,
This has been quite a busy bit of time hasn't it? I spent this last week working with the R.A.W.W. women deciding directions we want to go and working on their new message board and website. I've been chatting back and forth with different educators and presenters to put together the new workshop calendar for 2009 for The Academy and I've been having beautiful women visiting from San Francisco!
I adore my life! To give all of you an update, the good news is, if you are female, we have the 2009 R.A.W.W. Workshop and Playparty schedule finalized! If you identify as anything other than female, your workshop schedule will hopefully be up in the next couple weeks!
There will be a wide variety of classes for all interests and experience levels followed by play parties to help you hone the skills you have just learned and find ways to mix them into your your current play styles.
Until next time, Mistress Shae
02/26/09
Good morning,
This week I have many exciting announcements for you!
First, I would like to welcome to The Academy Ms. Karin Sin! From March 7th - 10th the stunning Ms. Karin Sin will be visiting us from The Gates in San Francisco. While it only takes an instant to see how breathtaking she is, you would be a fool to not see the power behind her gorgeous eyes. Read her full profile HERE.
*While she is with us Ms. Sin will be available By Appointment Only and can be contacted through her email address: love-my-feet@hotmail.com.
For an even more spectacular time, indulge yourself in a double or triple session with Ms. Karin Sin, Ms. Marina St. Mark and/or Mistress Shae. The three ladies have known each other for quite some time and have amazing chemistry together.
Second, the March "Special" will be posted up THIS weekend! Call it a hunch, but I'm quite certain many of you are going to get a kick out of it.
Third, we're finalizing the new Workshop and Play-Party calendar now. Updates will be posted soon so for those of you looking for events to play at or new skills to learn, get ready to bookmark this page. Again, keep those suggestions for workshops you would like to see coming in. We're getting some great ideas so far and I'm getting them setup for you. No request it too far out there, but you need to ask for it in order to be heard.
For those of you who haven't taken time recently to view my event and travel page, take a moment to do so now. I will be out of town 10 days in March and 8 days in April. If you live in one of the cities I'm traveling to this is a great opportunity to see me, if not, save yourself some frustration and know when I will be away.
Take care and I look forward to seeing you all soon. Mistress Shae
02/21/09
Good morning everyone,
It's a lovely day in Los Angeles and I have delightful news. Some of you may have noticed, I just made a large change to my scheduling availability. As of TODAY I will no longer be available for Saturday sessions. Going forward, Saturdays and Sundays will be reserved for Academy Workshops and special 1x1 and small group coaching sessions.
"The Academy" was given it's name for many reasons; furthering BDSM knowledge, resources within the community overall has always been very dear to me and one I so my best to support. If there are workshops or classes you are interested in participating in, please contact me via email or myspace. Also, please specify whether you are interested in attending a 1x1 or small group workshop so I know whether to compile group workshops for your area of interest or not.
Over the next few weeks, The Academy website will be posting up a Workshop Calendar with dates and times of classes as well as special upcoming workshops and visiting instructors. Look back often for updates!
Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon, Mistress Shae
02/18/09 Night Gallery this Friday at Club RUIN!
Find me in The Parlour for a deliciously wicked time....
Until then, Mistress Shae
02/18/09
Good afternoon everyone,
Valentines and The Black Heart's Masque weekend was spectacular! More and more images are being posted and RUIN has become one of the hottest nights in town. If you have yet to make it out, you are truly missing a fantastic evening. I will be working on posting up a RUIN gallery in the near future so keep your eyes open.
In other news, not only have new dates have been posted for my my 2009 travel schedule, but during the first week of March the lovely Mistress Karin Sin from San Francisco will be a visiting Mistress at The Academy for a brief period of time. Check back soon to see her bio and wickedly hot images.
So not only will March provide you this rare opportunity to serve this truly amazing Woman here in LA, but if you are lucky enough to live in one of the many cities I will be visiting during the months of March and April, you may be granted the chance to serve me without traveling to Los Angeles.
Cities currently on my schedule are: Denver, San Francisco, Seattle and New York City. (Exact date information can be found HERE on my travel and event page.)
Until next time, Mistress Shae
02/12/09
Two announcements for today class. First, with heavy heart I regret to announce that Lady Serenity has left The Academy.
She writes that she "will miss the Academy, the faculty, and its students, dearly." and regrets "that her new schedule will not permit her to continue her adventures in debauchery with her students."
While we will miss her, we send her off with with wishes of love and respect to pursue her educational career.
To lighten up the sad mood, my next announcement is about: The Black Heart Masque This Friday Night at Club RUIN!
It's an evening you won't want to miss!
Come join me in The Parlour for tortures so exquisite you won't be able to tear yourself away... and see who I've claimed as my lucky victims for the night.
Until Then, Mistress Shae
1/29/09
A final and VERY IMPORTANT announcement for today:
During the month of February, The Academy will be offering special 'Recession Tuesday" tribute rates!
Students visiting The Academy any Tuesday during February will receive a special $40 savings for the first hour of their visit.
Don't miss this great opportunity to visit your favorite ladies at a fraction of their usual tribute!
Until next we meet, Mistress Shae
01/29/09 Salutations everyone,
First and foremost, I would like to announce the launching of the Fierce Couture online catalog!
For you latex lovers this is a wonderful new way to get fantastic quality, latex clothing without ever leaving your home (or work, or vacation spot.)
(Don't be surprised if the beautifully-clad the model looks amazingly familiar!)
For those of you who prefer to buy your latex in person, Fierce Couture will be having a "Trunk Sale" on Valentines Day, February 14th!
What a deliciously unique way to show someone you care...including your Mistress. ;)
In other news, the theme this Friday night at Club Ruin is "SHADOWPLAY" so don your fedoras or wear your other “Noir” best and come out dressed to impress...and play.
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Fetish room sponsored by: The Broken Door
Performances this week including:
Mistress Shae Mistress Ice The Professor
See you there... Mistress Shae
01/22/09 Greetings my delightful students, Many changes have been going on at The Academy! Not only do we have two wonderful new pieces of equipment to play with, we also have a fantastic new "Teachers desk" for schoolhouse scenes.
Your Head Mistress has been quite busy with changes as well. Not only is she the new Alpha Domme at Club Ruin each Friday night, she has also been answering interviews for Toxic Treat, shooting with the incredible Chad Michael Ward become the feature character in a new graphic novel and been invited to do the Catalog for Fierce Couture Latex.
Goodness! Soon my plans will be finalized for my March trips to Denver and San Francisco and I can begin booking sessions. Those of you interested to know me more can read my Toxic Treat interview at: http://www.toxictreat.com/posts/int_shae
Take care and I look forward to seeing you at Club Ruin this Friday night.
Until then, Mistress Shae
01/06/09 THIS FRIDAY Mistress Shae will be playing in The Red Room at Club Ruin!
Whether or not you choose to play, don't miss this golden opportunity to see her...
If you are amongst the lucky, perhaps you will be chosen as her next plaything.
10:30 pm until 1:00 am
The Monte Cristo - 3100 Wilshire Blvd
Valet and street parking available
01/05/09
The lovely Faculty at The Academy would like to take this moment to wish all of their students a very happy New Year.
Now that the holidays are officially over, the ladies and I are looking forward to not only to our upcoming classes, but also to the sweet satisfaction of knowing that students who were silly enough to think "a little holiday slacking" would be acceptable are soon to be suitably corrected.
Until we see you next, Head Mistress Shae (and Faculty)
12/20/08
Happy Holidays my delightful students,
I hope all of you are staying warm during this cold snap. This is the time of year we traditionally reflect on all the spectacular events and people who have come into our lives that we have to be thankful for. So, in the spirit of the season I give you some of the wonderful moments of my year:
- Experiencing "DESIRE" for the first time - KinkBall with the lovely Submissive Natalie - Giving myself the greatest birthday gift of four legs ever - Not only riding out my recent adventure, but also coming out better than I started - Haiku slaves - Cute bois who "get it" - Partners who can think outside the box - Tutu's and Knock knock jokes - "Creative Excuses" - Leather "Dollies" - Heavy masochists - Game creation - Evenings spent with the amazing women in my life - Having all the pieces fall into place
May this season be filled with joy for all of you and this next year even brighter than the last.
Happy Holidays, Head Mistress Shae
12/10/2008
Good evening students,
If you've been good students and following my instructions to keep an eye on The Academy site this past week you already know that we have two new faculty members available for co-instructional sessions.
Being the inquisitive students you are, you may be wondering not only who these lovely ladies but also what unique abilities they that helped each of them make it through my strict Faculty Screening Process.
As you can quickly surmise by Mistress Marina St. Mark's bio, she is without question stunningly beautiful. Those who know me however know that a pretty face is nowhere near enough of a resume to gain you access at this Academy. Along with her gorgeous looks, Ms. Marina brings deadly accurate abilities in all corporal tools and razor sharp wit. I welcome her with open arms and will take great joy in watching those up for the challenge attempt to keep up with her.
Lady Serenity is a completely different creature. Her firm, curvy body is designed to tantalize your senses. Will you be foolish enough to let that soft voice ease you into a state of calm? Between her technical abilities and her sultry tones she will slowly twist your brain until you don't know what to expect next. Welcome to the sweetest nightmare of your life.
Take care until we see you next, Head Mistress Shae
P.S. Coming soon: New "Co-Instructional" Tributes
12/02/08
Greetings my devoted pupils. Life is going beautifully and many changes are afoot at The Academy. Check back over the next few days to be the first to receive your Holiday Surprise.
Until then, Head Mistress Shae
11/17/08
Good evening My delightful students. This morning I had a thoroughly enjoyable time working with a quite talented photographer in Culver City. In a very short amount of time we amassed a wonderful collection of images that I am looking forward to sharing with you soon.
Until then, Head Mistress Shae
11/10/08
I am pleased to announce that this Saturday morning your long fall reprieve will be ended as your Head Mistress returns.
As many of you I'm sure expected; My schedule is beginning to fill. So, for those whose schedules only allow particular "study times", it would behoove you contact Me promptly.
Also, because I know that some thoughts at times are more easily conveyed verbally than written, the Scheduling Line will be made available once again during regular hours beginning tomorrow.
Take care,
Head Mistress Shae
11/04/08: It's official. The Academy will be reopening it's doors on November 15th. Mark your calendars and prepare yourselves as I am looking forward to see how My students have been behaving in My absence.
At this time, I am accepting appointment requests (via email) from currently enrolled and/or pre-screened students only.
If you are not a current student of The Academy you may send Me an email detailing your session request, but know that you appointment will not be reserved until after you have completed a phone screening.
Take care, and I look forward to seeing you soon, Head Mistress Shae
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