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I am now available to you through Nite Flirt: 1-800-TO-FLIRT x94-44-757

I have a feeling that during all my upcoming travels it it will be a very handy way for my boys to keep in touch with me.

Use it well.
Mistress Shae Flanigan

 After a whirlwind trip to San Diego followed by a week in Seattle with a two-day jaunt to Disney immediately upon my return, it feels as though this is my first day back home in a month!

In just a couple weeks however I will heading up to San Francisco for a week to take in the International Ms Leather Contest, celebrate my birthday with a group of fantastic friends and sneak in a few great sessions before I fly off to Fort Lauderdale for the Beyond Leather conference the week after.

Simply horrible isn’t it? ;)

Once all that gallivanting around is finished, I’m  “pondering” going to Chicago for the International Mr Leather Contest and visiting sweetheart client of mine, but we shall see. With all the flying I’m doing perhaps I’ll want to stay in my lovely SoCal sunshine for a bit….

After-all, I still have June in Palm Springs, followed by my second coastal tour hitting San Francisco, Portland, Seattle and British Colombia. 

It’s going to be a busy summer for sure, but if you think THIS is fun just wait until you see what surprise I have in store for the fall!

Until I see you next,
Mistress Shae Flanigan

 

 

 

 

Seattle was chilly but fantastic! My sessions there were brilliant and seeing my deliciously kinky friends was hot as always. :)

I am thrilled to be back home in sunny SoCal and am looking forward to my busy week of sessions!

Anyone who attempted to reach me on Sunday, especially from a blocked number, I highly recommend calling again as I do not answer the scheduling line on Sundays. Those who called today, I will do my best to get back to you shortly, but until moments ago I have been dealing with airport delights.

Take care and I look forward to seeing you very soon!

Mistress Shae Flanigan

P.S. Take a moment to read the latest testimonial from one of my sessions in Seattle last week!

First and foremost, congratulations to Tiger our new Ms. San Diego 2010!  

Your desire to serve, positive outlook and community spirit I know will help make this an outstanding title year for you! P.S. Thank you for the wickedly hot fantasy!
 
I also, would like to extend my thanks to Chris (Ms. San Diego 2009) and the event producers Annie, Jesse, Adam and Michael for inviting me to sit on the Judges panel with such an incredible group of community leaders; truly I felt blessed.

My thanks also goes out to Sister Ida, our judges Boy Summer and Girl Julie and my amazing host family, (Amy, Naria and their boy Spike), who made me not only feel welcome and loved, but kept me from getting lost and took brilliant care of me at all of the events.

Additionally, my heartfelt thanks goes out to the San Diego community overall for welcoming me with open arms, (literally) and being so amazing through my workshop as I wreaked havoc on my poor defenseless bottom. She braved her way through my torments and I’m glad you were all there to witness her breakthrough with one of her major phobias. How fantastic was that!

I cannot express enough, how fantastic I think you all are and I cannot wait to come back down and spend time with you again! Who wants to sign up to take my birthday spankings at the party on April 3rd?

Until then,
Mistress Shae Flanigan

 

For the weekend anyway. ;)

The Leather community of San Diego honored me with asking if I would be one of their Judges for this weekend’s Ms. San Diego Leather Contest.

 

This is an incredible event and a fantastic opportunity to connect with some of the amazing people who make up the community down south.

 

It’s going to be a fantastic weekend of Play, performances, dinners, socializing and workshops! One of those workshops is my very own mind-fucking workshop. So if you’re one of the Ladies coming down for this event and want to attend my workshop, look for “The Hard Fuck” in your program.

Have a delightful weekend everyone I certainly will be!

Take care,
Mistress Shae Flanigan

 



 

There comes a point in life where we have to decide where we stand on issues we believe in and the world’s perception of us based on those issues.  

When I retired, I was acting based on a desire to “leave this profession to the new wave of women” who saw domination as something completely different than I. Let me reiterate again, that even in my departure letter, I tried to make it clear that one is not better than the other; just different. Much like some people’s preference for New England clam chowder, while others prefer the Manhattan version.

I adore sex, porn, escorts, porn stars, and Dominants of all forms. I believe that all sex workers are in this fight together for fair treatment and freedom to express ourselves in whatever way we see fit. We are one BIG family and in that family we have different roles. Often times over the years roles and identities evolve and mine may, but my Professional role currently is that of a “pure play” Dominant. I embrace that role whole-heartedly, it is whom I identify with and after a great deal of soul searching I do not see a conflict between myself as a Lifestyle player and myself as a Professional Dominant.

My main goal always has been and always will be to further BDSM education, community resources, and cross-community bonding and I apologize if my retirement letter created a fissure amongst anyone, that was not it’s intent.

Whether sex worker, Lifestyle player, perv, kinkster, fetishist, pornographer, or any assortment of other identities under this fantastic kink umbrella, we’re all still black sheep scattered throughout the societal standard herd. However, there are enough of us that if we stick together, we can make up a damn sexy flock of our own.

My black wooly self will be over here if anyone wishes join me…. Just saying.


Mistress Shae Flanigan

Today I had the wonderful pleasure of joining a group of my kinky peers as “demo-tops” during Olga’s Advanced Human Sexuality Class fieldtrip to Dragon’s Gate Dungeon. BDSM has been covered in class on numerous occasions and today was their opportunity to witness or try things, (should they feel so inclined), in a safe environment. To aide with their edification, I brought with me: canes, paddles, floggers, needles, my knife and my lovely little viper. Much to my surprise, I was asked for a caning demo before I had even set down my bags. How wonderful!

By the end of the day, four students had elected to try caning (two came back twice) and a number of students wanted to try my viper after watching me leave delicious marks up one side and literally down the other of one very delightful student... (they’ll all be remembering me tomorrow). The biggest request of all from me however was for knifeplay.

There’s just something about the danger, mixed with the intimacy, and the feel of the cold blade tracing across ones skin that just does it for people; goodness knows it certainly does it for me from the top side. I have no idea how many students I had the honor of introducing to knifeplay today, but I enjoyed every minute of it and I am looking forward to many more events like this in the future.

Until we speak next,
Mistress Shae Flanigan

After my long leave of absence, I was pleased to see so many of my clients welcome me back with open arms. To thank you for that loyalty, I have created a special "Loyalty Tribute".

Clients who saw me prior to my retirement and HAVE ALREADY contacted me to setup new sessions, will receive a permanent rate change to $200/hr. Your loyalty is not taken lightly.

Previous clients who have not yet contacted me, but wish to become part of this select "Loyalty Group" will be given until the holiday of my heritage to call, or send an email; after that time, the group will be closed.

Take care and to my wonderful faithful, thank you for making my homecoming so delightful. I look forward to seeing you soon.

Mistress Shae Flanigan

I am currently in the midst of arranging my travel for the next few months and of course part of that planning is setting up blocks of time in which to session.

Thus far, my availability while is Seattle:
March 18th: 12:00 - 4:00 pm
March 19th: 8:00 pm – 10:30 pm
March 20th: 12:00 – 3:00

During my trip to San Francisco, my session availability will be:
April 12 – 14th: 12:00 – 5:30 pm each day

As always, appointments must be made in advance and should you have special scheduling needs, or session requests, please inquire well in advance so I may pack appropriately.

In other news, if you are feeling under the weather, please do not “pop some cold medicine“ and come and see me. I do not want your germs. I would much prefer that you reschedule until you are feeling better.

Take care and I look forward to seeing you soon,

Mistress Shae Flanigan

Thank you for your patience during that brief flux in scheduling; we have now returned to our regularly scheduled program.

As always, please be prepared when you call as I do not tolerate pests.

Check back soon as I will have a longer missive coming in the near future.

M. Shae